This story may not be new, but it’s one that needs to be told again and again. As moms, we often find ourselves weary of the same narratives, especially when they overshadow the incredible strength and resilience of our families.
I had the privilege of meeting a remarkable family while Nate was filming the movie *I Win!*. Walking onto the set was a powerful woman who matched my energy and bravado—a potential rival turned ally.
She is a mother, a wife, a fierce businesswoman, and a dedicated parent raising children destined to make a difference in the world. But with that comes an unfortunate byproduct:
Hate and jealousy.
Isn’t it just adorable how some people can’t stand to see others succeed?
Lets be clear..
It's nauseating.
Our family has faced our share of scrutiny.
Nate, with his vibrant personality and substantial social media presence, is recognized everywhere we go.
While many admire his kindness and humor, there are those who question our motives, accusing us of exploiting him or using him for financial gain. To those naysayers, especially the teacher who made such a claim—joke’s on you; there’s no money to exploit. Oh, and by the way,
I see you,
I hear you.
Gossip is not a good look.
Plus, Karma always wins.
If only you could see how little is left in our bank account after Nate goes out to eat.
And for those still inquiring, nothing is your business.
We all work for a living.
But hey, someday when you make it big Nate, I really would love a condo on the ocean.
Besides, if anyone is using anyone, its NATE.
FREE everything, including rides like I'm driving Miss Daisy. Food, clothing, the list is endless. So before you go on assuming, well you know how that goes, ASS.
Navigating life with a child who has a disability is not a walk through a rose garden.
It’s filled with tears, sleepless nights, and losses—friends, relationships, and more.
I could fill an entire book of the "more", shall I start with the R-word?
Despite the struggles, we’ve met incredible people along the way, but our focus remains on ensuring our children are happy and healthy, thriving in their own right.
Let me introduce you to Kayla,
Nate’s girlfriend in the movie *I Win!* and a cherished friend. Kayla has Down Syndrome, but she is so much more than that.
She’s beautiful, kind, funny, thoughtful, and loving.
Last year, she proudly held the title of Miss Teen Delaware. She earned that title fair and square—she is articulate, smart, wise, graceful, talented, and deserving.
Can we get a round of applause for Kayla?
Unfortunately, though Daily, they are met with ignorant comments, full of hate and disgrace. (For those who might stand behind the theory, 'Well, if you put yourself out there, you're opening yourself up for critics.
Go away.
Yes they handle it beautifully and yes, it’s exhausting.
No one deserves to be berated.
No one deserves to be bullied.
No one deserves to be made fun of.
No one deserves to feel less than.
NO ONE.
As a momma bear, you can receive 1 million letters about your child full of praise, and that one? The one that is filled with evil, unfortunately that leaves an everlasting sting.
Yet, with her success comes the inevitable negativity.
Every day, Kayla and her family face comments from small-minded individuals hiding behind their screens.
We don’t always show it, but we’re tired—tired of the negativity and jealousy that permeates our society. Honestly, if only these keyboard warriors channeled their energy into something productive, we might all be living in a utopia by now.
I refuse to stay silent.
I am loud and proud and quite possibly, I take up more space than I should. But if not me, who will?
I stand against bullies, especially when it comes to my children.
These faceless critics are likely miserable in their own lives.
Have you ever typed something hurtful online?
To anyone?
Especially a complete stranger?
I know I’ve had moments of typing, but I don’t hit send.
Ok, maybe once, ok twice, but man they deserved it.
Maybe we should start handing out “Be Kind” stickers to the trolls; they clearly need the reminder.
Oh wait, we already do. 'Be a Good Human.'
But it’s very possible that people don’t read anymore and if they do, maybe they just don’t comprehend.
Let’s celebrate Kayla, who radiates kindness and resilience. Let’s celebrate my friend Heather's child who just learned to ride a bike, 2 wheels!
Y'all know, even I would fall off.
Or my friends lil one that just said his first word.
HUGE!!
We were not born to be cruel; we were born to uplift and support one another.
Kayla is who she is because of the love and support from her mom, dad, grandparents, siblings, and friends. Each day, she grows into the incredible person she is meant to be.
Jealous?
Success isn't given away for free. She had to work damn hard to get to where she is.
So when you're hitting snooze at 10 am, ask yourself.....
If you’re bothered by this message, feel free to send me a note with your address. I might just stop by because lessons need to be learned—even in 2025.
We ride at dawn.
And let’s be honest, who wouldn’t want a surprise visit?
Try to remember,
Silence is deafening.
shall I say it louder for those in the back?
STAND UP for what's right, cuz someday they will be pointing at you.
It’s time to embrace kindness and celebrate each other. Let’s raise our voices for those who can’t and foster a community where love triumphs over hate.
Because, really, isn’t that what we should all be striving for?
